Date your Spouse

Great Dates for your spouse.

Marriage is awesome, now know this that marriage is also hard. Take two different people and have them be together for the rest of there lives, is hard because we are all SELFISH. To the nth degree. So how do you love your spouse. Have a date night. Your poor, you don’t need money to have a date night. You have kids, great find another people with kids and switch kids, and go out.

Now lots of these things can cost money. But there are fun options like, walk around the park. Play Pokemon GO, go to the cheap theater there is one everywhere.  go to the dollar store and get a puzzle.

The whole point is to be together.

Every spouse wants to be pursued. Valentines has come and gone and though its a halmark holiday some people say they don’t want anything but every girl wants to be the “popular” girl. Have their locker decorated and displayed as a prize. You remember the locker, they got flowers, it was decorated. Those type of things people remember and feel emensely loved.

So now your married does this mean spend $100’s of dollars on valentines. NO

Sticky not a room with things you love about her

Make cards

Create paper flowers, pinterest was created for things like this

Make cookies

Send them a can of CRUSH soda.

Take a picture and send them to them to say how  much you love them

Put music on and dance with them when they come home

Buy a tea light candles can get a GROSS amount of them at Big Lots for 2.99 and when they come in have the lights off and the candles everywhere

Food doesn’t have to be expensive it just has to be thoughtful

Its the thought, its telling your significant other that they are SPECIAL and showing it.

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50 Date Night Ideas for at Home

1. Have an indoor picnic.
2. Beer tasting.
3. Ice cream night. Buy small containers so you can both have your favorite flavor. Talk about ice cream memories from when you were young.
4. Make Sushi together.
5. YouTube karaoke. Yes that is actually a thing!!! Search karaoke on YouTube and you will find tons of karaoke versions of songs.
6. Paint together on a big canvas.
7. Take a “how well do you know each other” trivia quiz.
8. Wine tasting.
9. Stargaze together and see how many constellations you can find.
10. Roast marshmallows over a fire pit (or barbecue).
11. Play video games together.
12. Put an air mattress or comfy blankets on the living room floor and fall asleep watching a movie.
13. Exchange foot rubs.
14. Enjoy fondue.
15. Make it a candle light night.
16. Prepare dinner from another culture together. Play music and watch a movie that celebrates that area.
17. Have cheese, sausage & crackers.
18. Have an outside picnic under the stars.
19. Exchange back rubs.
20. Work together to make a playlist of songs from when you were first together.
21. Dress up for each other. Wear fancy clothes and set a fancy table.
22. Chopped Challenge at home. Have a friend fill a bag with ingredients neither of you know about. Set a timer and race the clock together.
23. Do a puzzle together.
24. Make a homemade pizza.
25. Spend some time writing out 10-15 memories each. Then read them out loud to each other.
26. Blind taste test. Each of you collect some yummy treats like peanut butter, cool whip, pixie sticks, honey, cream cheese, strawberries, etc. Don’t let the other see. Take turns bringing out an ingredient.
27. Organize digital family pictures together.
28. Make your own massage oil.
29. Unplug from everything and just be together.
30. Read aloud to each other.
31. Play a childhood game.
32. Learn a new hobby together.
33. Play darts.
34. Plan a your next trip.
35. Dream together. Talk about where you’d like to be in the next 5, 10, 15 years in your relationship, with the kids, with finances,  in your careers, etc.
36. Take YouTube dance lessons. Salsa anyone?
37. Do a “Skype” double date with a friend couple who has moved cross country.
38. Make a list of the top ten reasons you’re happy to have him as your hubby while he makes a list about why he’s happy to have you!
39. Play cards. We like Golf. Someone recommended Casino, we can’t wait to try it!
40. Have a really special fancy dessert from a near by bakery.
41. Walk around the neighborhood, keeping your house in view.
42. Watch the first movie you ever watched together.
43. Search online for your dream home.
44. Exchange a scalp massage.
45. Build a fort together.
46. Take a bath together.
47. Make fancy popcorn.
48. Share (or remember together) embarrassing moments from the past.
49. Look at your wedding album.
50. Start a journal together. Write love notes in it and keep in near your bed.

Tips for Keeping the Kids Busy

• Get them a movie to watch in another room.
• If you do rest time, like we do, send them on their way.
• Create a “sleepover” feel, letting the kids share a room for the night.
• Include the kids. Let them be waiters/waitresses, serve the meal and clean up after.

More date nights

• Make a fort
• Play trivia
• Watch a sports game and make bets
• Look at wedding album and/or video
• “Minute to Win It” games
• Make a music video
• Do a science experiment
• Watch YouTube videos
• Make a song list and dance
• Candle Lit Dinner
• Give Massages
• Make homemade ice cream
• Cook a meal together
• Picnic in backyard or living room
• Play cards
• Put a puzzle together
• Camp in backyard or living room
• Play board games
• Make a couple’s “bucket list”
• Build a snowman
• Spend $10 at Thrift Store
• Italian Night – Food/Music/Movie
• Mexican Night – Food/Music/Movie
• Shoot hoops together
• Play racquetball
• Go swimming