June 25, 2010
Today was a interesting day, on a normal day to day I just edit have a photo shoot here and there but the one thing that made it interesting was meeting my wedding photographer who didn’t show up to my wedding. I didn’t know what my response was going to be when I saw her, nor was I making any expectations. Like any person or former bride I had questions but took the time to listen, and I know that there is two sides to any coin. Well I met with her and all she wanted was forgiveness, I learned I was the only one she didn’t show up but also the story behind it all and instead of feeling like I was owed something, I realized the other part. By all means I will never leave my bride in a lurch but I will give her credit that she went through a lot. Its not how I would deal with things but everyone is different and I can’t hold it over her. When I look at my wedding photos, there is sadness because its not what I was looking for but I hope that I can use this experience to show grace and love to anyone I meet and tell all the brides out there that I will be there and sometimes the hardest people to forgive are the ones that mess up the most special days.